5 Ways to Get Rid of Shyness and Become Self-Confident

December 18, 2011 · Posted in Dating 

If you aren’t a very confident person and are looking for tips on how to increase your self-esteem, get rid of shyness or become a self-confident person, keep reading this article. I’ll show you five sure-fire ways to improve your self-confidence. Here they are!

1. Visualization

If you were a highly confident and outgoing guy, what type of person would you be? How would you walk? How would you be perceived by other people? What clothes would you wear? How would you feel? Ask yourself these questions to create your perfect version of yourself and then imagine that you are this person. Repeat this exercise on a regular basis (preferably every day) to change your thoughts and increase your self-esteem. If you want to get somewhere, first you need to know where you’re going!

2. Affirmation

Repeat to yourself on a daily basis that you are a highly confident and outgoing person. It’s a great way to get rid of self-doubt and other negative thoughts and increase your self-esteem (since many people are constantly saying to themselves that they’re shy). It’s very important to understand that you too can become a very confident person.

3. Get out of your comfort zone

The more uncomfortable you feel, the more you learn and the more you grow. Practice the art of getting outside your comfort zone on a daily basis. Do things that you’re afraid of, try new things, don’t avoid doing things that are difficult. Set challenges and make your dreams come true. Each of these things can greatly increase your self-confidence.

4. Fake it till you make it

Look as if you were a confident person. “Fake it till you make it” is a technique that can do miracles to your self-confidence. Improve your clothing style (ask women for advice), get rid of your belly (and put some muscle), improve your diet. These changes can greatly increase your self-esteem and make you act as a more confident person.

5. Be an action taker

Visualizing things and repeating positive affirmations can help you develop a positive mental attitude. What these techniques won’t do is teach you how to actually become a confident person. You can learn how to do it only by taking action and facing your fears. Don’t spend the majority of your spare time at home – spend as much time as you can expanding your comfort zone. That’s the key to success!

Remember that if you are serious about improving your self-confidence, you have to make permanent changes in your life. Introduce new habits (expanding your comfort zone, changing your diet and lifestyle etc.) and every single day try to do something that you’re afraid of and I’m sure that you’ll eventually become confident.

If you want to read more about how to become confident or maybe how to get more confidence, google Flawless Confidence.


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