The Girl Texting Mindset

April 24, 2012 · Posted in Dating 

Having the right mindset when you talk to girls can make a huge different. If you get it right, you’ll be able to just know all the right things to say.

On the other hand, if you do not have the right mindset then you will always be struggling for “what to say.” Even if you manage to “fake it” for a while, eventually the truth will come through. (To learn more about texting a girl you just met, check out my article on what to text girls.)

That just comes to show you how useful the right mindset can be.

So what is a mindset? It is a set of ideas or beliefs that governs how you think and behave.

Here’s the right mindset you should have when texting a girl.

Have the attitude that she is having a boring, interesting day and you are hear to cheer her up and make her smile.

But you are not doing this by being a kiss ass “nice guy”. You are not going to shower her with compliments just so she will like you. Instead you are going to be a strong, confident man.

Pretend that you have a bunch of hot girls calling you up and asking you to hang out. How would your attitude change then? That’s how you want to act. Not cocky. Just confident.

Would you care if she took longer to text you back? Or if she didn’t text you back at all?

Of course you wouldn’t.

You’d just send her a fun, playful text and then get on with your bad-self!

You wouldn’t be worrying about if or when she’s going to text you back. She could be dealing with a whole bunch of things in her life. Or it’s possible that she might not be interested. Regardless of what happens, you don’t take it personally.

Remember, you are deciding if this girl is cool enough for you to hang out with. If it turns out that she’s not, then that’s fine too.

If she does text you back, you are not going to just stop whatever you are doing to answer it. It’s not that big of a deal to you.

Keep think about these attitudes and beliefs. Remember them. Internalize them. Become them.

When you can adopt this mindset when talking and interacting with girls, you will be able to think of the right thing to say, without having to force anything. As a result, you will see your success with women go way up.

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